Willow and I. Puneet and I. Fluffy, Ozzie and I. Yep, I'd put the other people first. If I wanted to stress my role, I would say "Me and Willow, we..." That's definitely not written language, though.

Incidentally German has a similar rule with a saying to help you remember: "Der Esel nennt immer sich selbst zu erst" ="The donkey always mentions herself first."