She sounds like a wonderful person, the sort I admire.

I too often thought of Wiccans as ignoring theology and archaology for some rose painted fluffy universe.

It is always refreshing to find someone who knows the truth, but is able to live and believe with the truth not with an idealized falsehood. I met this teacher from Wisconsin named Oakbear who is much like that.

There are those who are attracted to the trappings and those who are attracted to the path, free of trappings.

Some of the language you used reminded me remarkably of some of the Buddhist language I have encountered.

A truly good teacher removes obstacles and challenges you to grow and to venture forth on the path.

Now the best thing you can do, as you mourn, is to use what she gave you and continue with your community and help each other. But you probably already knew this.

I'll be thinking of both her and you and your community, and sending you hugs from across the Atlantic.